Read the following list of items. Decide which ten are
most valuable to your. Rank these from 1 to 10 (1 being
the most valuable) in the appropriate space in the you
column. Next, do the same for your significant other and
record them in the appropriate space in the other column.
Share your personal rankings with your companion then compare
your responses.
| You |
Other |
|
| |
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A secure and comfortable retirement |
| |
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A sense of equality in relationships |
| |
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Emotional and sexual intimacy |
| |
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A sense of accomplishment in life |
| |
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A meaningful love relationship |
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Financial security for the family |
| |
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Happiness or contentedness |
| |
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A meaningful relationship with
God |
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Feelings of self-confidence |
| |
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Social recognition and community
status |
| |
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A fulfilling marriage |
| |
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Meaningful purpose in life |
| |
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Helping the poor, sick, and disadvantaged |
| |
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A sense of family togetherness
and happy children |
| |
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Learning, gaining knowledge continually |
| |
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Honesty and personal integrity |
| |
|
Good health and physical fitness |
| |
|
Close relationships with extended
family |
| |
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Traveling and quality vacations |
| |
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Companionship, spending time together
as a couple |
| |
|
Success in a job or career |
| |
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Freedom to live life a you choose |
| |
|
New experiences and adventures |
| |
|
Being outdoors, away from city
life |
| |
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Satisfying friendships, liking
people, and being liked. |
| |
|
Living in the city, access to
restaurants and entertainment. |
| |
|
Time alone, being by myself |
| |
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Having nice things, such as cars,
boats, furniture |
| |
|
Emotional security, freedom from
excessive stress. |
